What are common polite phrases used in Chinese arguments

Common polite phrases used in Chinese arguments typically serve to maintain respect and harmony despite disagreements. Some frequent expressions include:

• 对不起 (duìbuqǐ) meaning “Sorry,” used to soften a disagreement or convey regret.
• 请您稍等 (qǐng nín shāo děng) meaning “Please wait a moment,” to politely interrupt or slow down the conversation.
• 我理解您的意思 (wǒ lǐjiě nín de yìsi) meaning “I understand your point,” acknowledging the other person’s perspective.
• 让我解释一下 (ràng wǒ jiěshì yíxià) meaning “Let me explain,” calming the tone before presenting a counterargument.
• 谢谢您的意见 (xièxiè nín de yìjiàn) meaning “Thank you for your opinion,” showing appreciation to soften the disagreement.
• 我们可以讨论一下这个问题吗？ (wǒmen kěyǐ tǎolùn yíxià zhège wèntí ma?) meaning “Can we discuss this matter?” inviting constructive dialogue politely.

These phrases reflect the Chinese cultural emphasis on face-saving, respect, and harmony even in disputes, by balancing assertiveness with politeness to avoid direct confrontation or offense. ^{11, 20}

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