Key nonverbal gestures to avoid in Chinese culture
Navigating Chinese Culture: Mistakes to Avoid When Speaking Mandarin: Key nonverbal gestures to avoid in Chinese culture
Key nonverbal gestures to avoid in Chinese culture include:
- Excessive and big hand movements, which can be seen as annoying or overly dramatic.
- Getting touchy or physical; avoid hugs, kisses, or touching strangers. Handshakes are not always expected.
- Pointing with a single index finger is very rude; use an open hand instead. Also, do not call someone over with your palm up and fingers wiggling, as it is disrespectful. Pointing at your own nose is acceptable, but not at others.
- Winking and whistling are considered vulgar or aggressive.
- Gesturing or pointing with feet is highly offensive, as feet are considered unclean.
- Giving the pinkie or middle finger is rude and disrespectful.
- Loudly sucking in air through teeth conveys annoyance.
- Standing with hands on hips or crossing arms can appear arrogant or defensive.
- Avoid prolonged or direct eye contact which can be seen as confrontational.
- Public displays of affection like bear hugs or excessive touching are frowned upon.
- Don’t wave as a greeting since it can mean “no” or “don’t” in some contexts.
- Never put feet on a table or chair, or use feet to pass objects.
Instead, maintain modest, controlled gestures, nod slightly for greetings if unsure, and use culturally appropriate signs like the “peace” sign in photos or placing one palm over the other fist with a slight bow to say “thank you”. 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6