Common conversation topics to avoid in Germany
Mastering German Etiquette: Essential Tips for Language Learners: Common conversation topics to avoid in Germany
Common conversation topics to avoid in Germany include:
- Mental health: This remains a sensitive and somewhat taboo subject due to stigma and fear of judgment.
- Sex: Despite a liberal attitude towards nudity, sexual matters are typically private and not openly discussed.
- Salary and personal finances: Talking about one’s earnings or financial details is generally considered impolite and intrusive.
- Personal life at work: Germans tend to keep their professional and personal lives separate, making oversharing at work inappropriate.
- Politics and current events: Discussions, especially about refugees, the pandemic, or World War II, may lead to heated debates or discomfort and are best approached with caution or avoided.
- Sensitive historical topics such as the Nazi era and the Holocaust are also taboo and require utmost respect and sensitivity.
- Jokes or comments about marginalized groups, disabilities, or sexual assault should be avoided, as they can offend.
Additionally, addressing people formally (“Sie” rather than “du”) until invited to do otherwise and steering clear of overly personal questions about marital status, children, or salary helps maintain appropriate etiquette in conversations.
Germans prefer meaningful and direct conversations over small talk, and topics related to wealth, personal issues, or potentially divisive politics are best avoided unless among close friends or trusted people. 1, 2, 3, 5, 6