How to ask someone out romantically in German

To ask someone out romantically in German, here are some common phrases you can use:

• “Möchtest du mit mir ausgehen?” (Would you like to go out with me?)
• “Hast du Lust, mit mir einen Kaffee trinken zu gehen?” (Do you feel like going for a coffee with me?)
• “Wollen wir uns mal treffen?” (Shall we meet up sometime?)
• “Ich würde dich gerne besser kennenlernen.” (I would like to get to know you better.)
• “Hast du am Wochenende Zeit für ein Date?” (Do you have time for a date this weekend?)

Adding a little polite and warm tone helps make the invitation more romantic in German culture. You can also personalize the invitation based on common interests or planned activities. Remember to listen to their response respectfully, as directness varies in German communication. ¹

These phrases should help you romantically ask someone out in German with clarity and warmth.

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