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Do's and don'ts when visiting an Italian home

Italian Etiquette: Key Insights for Language Learners: Do's and don'ts when visiting an Italian home
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Here are key do’s and don’ts when visiting an Italian home:

Do’s:

  • Bring a gift such as a quality wine, flowers, or a dessert from your home country. Bringing a dish is appreciated but ideally check with the host first. 1
  • Greet politely with a “permesso” along with “buongiorno” or “buona sera” when entering. 1
  • Accept refreshments like coffee, cake, or water offered by the host to show appreciation. 7
  • Smile and greet warmly, as Italians are expressive and value warmth more than rigid formality. 7
  • Respect the host’s home by not wandering around uninvited or taking off shoes unless asked. 7
  • Participate in the social and dining rituals, such as having espresso when offered and waiting for everyone to be served before eating. 2

Don’ts:

  • Don’t take your shoes off unless specifically requested; it’s generally expected to keep shoes on. 7
  • Don’t roam around the house freely without permission. 7
  • Avoid making loud eating sounds or slurping, as Italians consider this rude. 6
  • Don’t bring up topics that may be culturally sensitive or religiously disrespectful. 2
  • Don’t use ketchup or put cheese on seafood dishes, as these are frowned upon in Italian culture. 4
  • Avoid being too formal or stiff; Italians prefer natural, warm interactions. 7

Following these guidelines will help leave a positive impression and show respect for Italian customs in private homes. Let me know if more detailed cultural nuances or specific regional tips are needed.

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