What gestures should I avoid in Japan
Expressive Silence: Understanding Body Language in Japan: What gestures should I avoid in Japan
In Japan, certain gestures should be avoided as they may be considered rude, aggressive, or impolite. Key gestures to avoid include:
- Avoid pointing with your fingers, as it is seen as aggressive and rude. Instead, use an open hand with the palm facing up to indicate direction or something of interest. Pointing with the index finger can come across like a scolding gesture in Japan. 1, 5, 6, 7
- Don’t engage in prolonged and direct eye contact, especially with strangers or superiors, as it can be perceived as confrontational or intimidating. It’s better to glance to the side or look briefly. 2, 6, 1
- Avoid crossing your arms during conversations, since it signals that you don’t want to talk, and is considered a hostile posture. 1, 2
- Do not spread out your arms and legs or take up more space than necessary, particularly on public transport, as this is seen as bad manners. 1
- Avoid slouching or putting your hands in your pockets while standing or talking, as it appears lazy and disrespectful. 3, 2, 1
- Avoid using your feet to point to or move objects, as feet are considered dirty in Japanese culture. 2
- Avoid making certain insulting gestures, such as crossing fingers (which indicates conflict) or raising the middle finger. [8], 1
- When gesturing “come here,” do not wave your hand with the palm facing down; the Japanese gesture is to extend the hand palm up and move it back and forth. 2
Overall, it’s best to use modest, respectful gestures, keep hands visible and relaxed, and bow rather than shake hands when greeting. Following these guidelines shows cultural sensitivity and respect in Japan. 6, 7, 1