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Do's and don'ts for conversation topics in Russia

Russian Etiquette: Essential Guide for Language Learners: Do's and don'ts for conversation topics in Russia
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Here are key do’s and don’ts for conversation topics in Russia based on cultural etiquette and current social norms:

Do’s

  • Talk about neutral and positive subjects such as travel, books, weather, and shared everyday experiences (e.g., metro delays, long winters). 1
  • Show genuine interest by asking questions like “Have you lived here long?” or expressing appreciation for the culture and language. 1
  • Engage in meaningful conversations rather than small talk; Russians tend to prefer depth and authenticity in conversations. 2, 3
  • Use light sarcasm and dry humor if appropriate, and always be authentic rather than forcibly cheerful. 1

Don’ts

  • Avoid discussing money, especially directly asking about salaries, as this is considered rude or too personal, though some Russians may discuss finances within close circles. 4, 1
  • Stay away from political discussions, particularly with people you do not know well, as they can be sensitive and divisive. 5, 1
  • Refrain from talking about religion as it is considered a private matter for many Russians. 6, 1
  • Avoid conversations about sex, suicide, death, and controversial historical or economic subjects, as these are considered taboo or unpleasant, especially among families. 5, 6
  • Do not chat about personal problems or therapy, which are not typical small talk topics in Russia. 1
  • Avoid excessive compliments or forced friendliness as it may come off as insincere. 1
  • Avoid topics like a woman’s age due to cultural sensitivity. 4

Summary:

  • Safe topics: weather, culture, travel, books, sports, everyday life.
  • Avoid taboo subjects: money, politics, religion, sex, death, suicide, personal struggles.
  • Authenticity and patience are valued; let Russians guide the depth and tone of conversation. 2, 1

This guidance reflects social etiquette for conversational topics in Russia to foster respectful and comfortable communication. Letting the Russian conversation partner lead and observing their comfort level is advisable.

If more detailed advice on greetings or business topics is needed, it can be provided as well.

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